One year, nine countries, countless lessons. Here's what long-term travel taught me about living intentionally.
Lessons in clarity & control
- Plans go sideways — Laughter fixes what control can't.
- I can't know what I'm supposed to do — I just pursue a vision with discipline.
- Time passes and everything changes — What matters is how I show up.
- Limbo and sadness surface — Reflection keeps me clear.
- Booking last minute (except flights) works — I find deals, stay flexible, and avoid pressure.
Lessons in love & connection
- I've met people from everywhere — Brief intersections hold beauty.
- Goodbyes hurt but remind me I'm truly connected — Some friends last a day, but their presence lingers.
- The hardest goodbye was unexpected — It expanded my heart.
- I can still love deeply — And feel deep love from another.
- People back home can't always relate — Sometimes I have to translate experiences.
- Belonging isn't about staying — It's about understanding and being understood.
Lessons in freedom & surrender
- I'm in touch with my inner boy — I let him express himself.
- Long-term travel isn't vacation — It's raw, real life.
- I need less than I think — Lightness is luxury.
- Letting go of plans invites surprise — Curiosity is enough.
- Peak experiences come when I'm open — I don't need to chase them.
- I can be anywhere, do anything, and be anyone — With the responsibility of staying aligned.
Lessons in growth & grounding
- Stories are how I make sense of movement — Sharing creates meaning.
- Presence defines me — Every challenge is a choice to be myself.
- Reflection heals me — I must pause.
- Long-term travel is transforming — Full of wonder, color, and connection.
- Routine takes effort — But exists wherever I create it.
- Eating alone is a quiet strength — Solitude is peace.
- Food poisoning and hangovers happen — Always have water and crackers ready.
Reflection
Year two has already begun. I don't know where it leads, and I won't pretend I can plan it. I only know I'm walking forward with clearer eyes, a bigger heart, and a lighter pack.
